Diane: That is so true! Exactly

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Or if you come in and say, “I need this fixed. Cause I think this is the problem.” He’ll say, “Nah, it’s a $2 part. You don’t have this problem.” And he’s always been that way. If you look at his business, there are people waiting in line to get him to work on their cars because he’s not trying to sell you something that you don’t need.

Diane: And because we are so used to mechanics selling us things we don’t need that, he’s a gem, right? So the salespeople who don’t sell are the ones that people gravitate toward because they know they’re going to be told the truth. It’s a total integrity thing.

And I’ll add something to what you were talking about, which is when you convince somebody they need what you have, it’s a really bad relationship. And neither of you like it. So why would you do it? You’re going to end up spending time with someone that it’s just difficult all the time.

The Gangrene of Business Relationships
Jeb: If I sell you something that you don’t need and you india telegram data realize that I did that, then you resent me. Maybe you’re a small business. I’ve been in this position before where I needed a sale or I needed to get a deal done.

I would lower my price, or add on services in order to convince someone that I could help to do business with me. But down the road, as my business grew, I started resenting that customer because I felt like they were taking advantage of me.

Resentment leads to contempt, which is the gangrene of business relationships. It will rot them out at the core until there’s a point where you cannot save the relationship. There won’t be any referrals, you don’t like each other, and it almost always ends badly.